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Acne
Also known as neurodermatitis, acne is a common skin condition that
most people will face at some time during their lives. For some, acne
may be no more serious than a periodic outbreak of blackheads or a few
pimples at the time of puberty. For many others however, acne is more
severe, and takes the form of deeper pockets of inflammation, or cysts
containing sticky fluid. Moreover, it does not always disappear with
the teenage years.
It is important to treat acne as early as possible because the teenage
years--when most people develop the condition--are the years when most
people are beginning to get to know themselves as adults . It is a
time of great stress and insecurity, when peer and social pressures
are deeply felt. Facing the challenges of maturing into adulthood can
be difficult enough without shouldering the added burden of a poor
self image. This is unnecessary, because simple remedies are
available. Besides the psychological and appearance benefits of
treating acne, there is another good reason: if untreated it can
result in permanent scarring.
It remains a medical mystery exactly how hypnosis treats acne so
successfully, but it does. Under light hypnosis, we instil the
suggestion that the body will no longer send fluids to “feed” the
pimples, or other eruptions; indeed the suggestion is made that the
body insists that they go. While this is a simplification of the
treatment, it is the basic premise, and it works. A similar approach
will see warts, sometimes another manifestation of teenage years,
disappear. If you are concerned about your own, or your teenagers
acne, by all means contact us. Usually, young people, particularly
those endowed with fertile imaginations, are excellent hypnosis
subjects

Source:The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Alcoholism
Alcoholism is one of the most complex, least understood and most
damaging diseases of our age. It is by far the most expensive of all
diseases in its cost to our society in terms of lost work time, family
breakdown, violent crime and medical cost. The disease attacks men in
only slightly higher proportions than women. It is present in all
education and socio-economic levels to the same extent, and there are
only slight changes in levels of alcoholism by ethnic extraction.
Contrary to popular belief, alcoholism has genetic origins and
addiction to alcohol has nothing to do with lack of will. In fact, a
person can be an alcoholic without ever touching a drop of alcohol.
Alcohol is simply the catalyst that brings out the symptoms of the
disease. When activated, the symptoms get progressively worse with
each intake of ethyl alcohol and remain until complete abstention or
death, whichever comes first. A cross-addiction to drugs is frequently
developed, particularly in young alcoholics.
In the mid-1980's, research studies on the disease of alcoholism at
UCLA and the Harvard Medical School, simultaneously isolated the gene
that, if present at birth, guarantees a propensity towards alcoholism.
Thus a new understanding of the disease became available. However,
while sociologists believe that public education about the disease
should start in grade school, it remains conspicuous by its absence in
the curriculum of most school boards in North America. Brewer's and
distiller's profit levels are dependent on the disease, because it is
estimated that the 10 percent of the population that is alcoholic
consumes more than half of the alcohol sold in NA.
Recovery depends upon acceptance of the presence of the disease and a
desire to stop drinking. There is no cure for alcoholism and the only
treatment is abstinence. As of this writing, there is no method by
which an alcoholic can be taught how to drink safely and become a
social drinker.
Hypnotism can help a subject to overcome initial denial and stop
drinking a day at-a-time. In the early stages of treatment,
hospitalization is sometimes, but not always, necessary. The Pecarvé
method reinforces rehabilitation, membership in such successful
support groups as Alcoholic Anonymous, and provides powerful
suggestions that help the subject refrain from ever again picking up a
drink. Frequently, there are other psychological afflictions that are
caused by, or accompany the disease, including lack of self esteem,
paranoia, anxiety, or anger. Hypnotism can treat these attendant
conditions effectively. Alcoholism is a very persistent and evasive
disease, and the use of hypnotism in its treatment can make the
difference in keeping the alcoholic sober and return them to full
enjoyment of life and family.

Source: Alcoholism (Ch. 18) The Hypnosis Book by Rubin
Pecarvé
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Anaesthetic for Major and Minor Surgery -
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Hypno-anaesthesia is used as an alternative to the conventional use of
drugs such as curare and other anaesthetics. It is a safe and proven
method and can be used for surgeries that range from simple
appendectomies to open heart surgery. Some who have hypertension are
at high risk when under conventional anaesthetic. For them, and those
who have phobias associated with conventional anaesthesia, or
allergies to the drugs used in conventional anaesthetic, it enables
needed surgery to be safely performed.
There is a fast recovery period and no side effects with
hypnoanaesthesia because there are no drug effects to wear off. The
patient is wide awake and lucid immediately after the operation.
Bodily functions such as food and drink intake, urination and bowel
movements return to normal much more quickly that with conventional
anaesthesia. Hypno-anaesthesia is available through the Rubin Pecarvé
Hypnotherapy Clinic.

Source: Beethoven in the Operating Theatre (Ch. 1) The
Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Anger and Rage Control
Compulsive behaviour leading to verbal or physical violence is almost
always a learned or reactive condition coming from early childhood
experiences. It is as prevalent in females as in males. Normal actions
in others can trigger uncontrollable anger due to the presence of
unresolved issues. The sufferer is often unaware of the true reasons
for his or her inability to control anger and erroneously believes it
is caused by the person to whom he or she directs the anger at the
heat of the moment. While anger is a normal and useful impulse, when a
person is unable to control the impulses and they lead to verbal or
physical violence (out of control), the condition is obsessive and can
be extremely dangerous.
If the condition remains untreated, these unfortunate people can be,
at best, impossible to live with and, at worst, a serious danger to
themselves and society. Conjugal violence and child abuse frequently
occurs because of unaddressed underlying issues that are the true
cause of such psychotic behaviour. Sufferers are frequently in denial
and this makes it difficult to get them to undertake the necessary
treatment. There is a sort of sub-conscious justification that works
something like this: because my mother and father beat me and each
other I know its OK behaviour for me no matter what anyone else says.
Until these misguided impressions are brought to the surface and
corrected the behaviour will continue. This is, more often than not, a
progressive condition that will get steadily worse if left untreated.
Fortunately, rage is a condition that can be effectively treated with
hypnotherapy if the subject is able to be honest about their condition
and come for help. In some societies this is difficult because of
cultural tradition that condones violent behaviour towards spouses or
children. However, in recent years Canadian and US laws have been
enacted that place the onus for treatment and modification of
compulsive, violent behaviour with the offender.
Hypnosis has the facility to get to the route of sub-conscious
feelings very quickly, the true cause of the angry behaviour can be
isolated and dealt with. I treat many men and women who have been
ordered by the courts to attend anger control clinics and group
therapy. The work of hypno-therapy complements this treatment.
Successful treatment requires a true desire, on the part of the
patient, to get better. When that occurs, there is a very high
incidence of recovery and great improvement in the enjoyment of the
life of former sufferers and those around them.
Source: Compulsions (Ch. 16) from The Hypnosis Book by
Rubin Pecarvé
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Anhedonia (absence of feelings of pleasure)
Anhedonia is a chronic absence of feelings of pleasure in things or
acts that normally give pleasure. Including, for example, sex, a good
movie, parties, people, food, a day in the country. The symptoms can
be the inability to climax during sexual intercourse, finding the
taste of a candy bar bitter, never having fun at a party, negative
hallucinations, being served a gourmet meal and not appreciating it.
This condition is sometimes caused by ambitious parents who set
standards or expectations that are way above the abilities of the
child. These children were never praised for doing small things. In
fact, nothing they did was good enough for either parent. Sometimes
the misguided parents set an act that was too difficult to follow. As
a result the child was deprived of the normal pleasure he should
derive from parental approval of small accomplishments and the
inter-personal act of mutual appreciation. Because pleasure is
considered a reward and these children never believe they have
deserved a reward in the first place, they can' t feel normal pleasure
or satisfaction with self or others, or appreciate acts of kindness or
even pleasant surroundings.
To treat this condition with hypnosis, we take the negative surface
feelings as they are manifested, dismantle the uncomfortable ones, and
replace them with pleasant thoughts. We reinforce and underline
self-worth. This is not as difficult as it sounds because the subjects
are so deprived of approval, they are only too willing to accept
praise and acknowledgement from a trusted source. When it sinks in
that there is nothing wrong with enjoying the great pleasures that
life offers, they soon start to lead a different life. The happiest
are the ones around them.
Source:The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia
Anorexia, and the related disease Bulimia, are essentially
psychological illnesses. Anorexia Nervosa means "nervous loss of
appetite." The condition is prevalent among girls 14-17 years of age
although occasionally males or older women develop this preoccupation
with body size. Dieting turns to refusal to take nourishment. After
several weeks malnutrition sets in because of lack of minerals and
vitamins. Cessation of menstrual cycle is common. Losses of half the
body weight can occur while the anorexic continues to believe they are
still too fat. Anorexia is fatal in 10 to 15 percent of cases despite
intervention by family and doctors.
Bulimia, which is from the Greek boulimia meaning "great
hunger" is related to anorexia. It is characterized by gorging food
followed by vomiting, fasting or purging by use of laxatives. Use of
amphetamines and other appetite suppressants is frequent. The syndrome
involves frequent bouts of overeating to satisfy insatiable hunger
followed by a compulsion to be rid of the hated food. Bulimia is not
as dangerous as anorexia because bulimic adults can usually function
normally.
As is true in so many psychologically based illnesses hypnotherapy can
hasten recovery. Frequently in anorexia and bulimia it is necessary to
regress the patient to early childhood and hypnosis can accomplish
this effectively and quickly. In such cases however it is important
that the hypnotherapist works in close consultation with psychiatric
professionals.
Source: Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia (Ch. 11) The Hypnosis
Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Anxiety Neurosis
Anxiety neurosis is caused by deep-seated, discomforting impressions
on the subconscious due to the psychodynamic effects of environment or
upbringing. The condition is characterized by an abnormal concern
about present or future conditions or events. Patients are irritable,
anger easily, apprehensive, tense and overreact to routine life
situations. Anxiety attacks may be accompanied by physical
manifestations such as trembling, rapid pulse, excessive sweating,
dizziness and headaches. It can bring on vomiting, diarrhoea, and
nausea. The condition is accompanied by depression and a severe sense
of dread.
Some anxiety has realistic bases such as lack of financial resources
or impending bad weather when at sea in a small boat. This type of
anxiety helps us to prepare for emergencies and will pass as the
crisis passes. But neurotic anxiety is virtually unfounded except in
the victims mind. This constant or recurring chronic psychological
condition is known as anxiety neurosis and prevents normal pursuit of
happiness. The right medication can definately help this condition.
However, for a more permanent solution, hypnosis is at its best in
dealing with psychologically based conditions such as anxiety.
Hypnosis can quickly get to the cause of the anxiety, which resides
deep in the subconscious. As we uncover the underlying causes we are
able to deal with them and reinforce new, positive ways to deal with
feelings of anxiety.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Asthma
The condition of asthma exists when a nervous spasm of the bronhioles,
allows air to enter the lungs easily enough, but creates considerable
difficulty in expelling it. This is caused by the expansion of the
small muscles around the air passage. Sometimes the patient feels
helpless, as if he or she is held in the grip of a giant vice. The
highly unpleasant feeling of suffocation gives rise to fear and
increased tension which only prolongs and aggravates the condition.
Emotional upheaval contributes to asthma attacks and worry and anxiety
create more tension that can lead to a vicious cycle that is hard to
break. Indeed, it is hard to find a case of asthma where a history of
considerable emotional disturbance is not present. The condition is
worse at night particularly in the early hours of the morning.
Orthodox medical opinion is at a loss to explain the cause of the
complaint. Allergy is thought to play a big part and sensitivity to
things that vary from house dust or flowers to cats and dogs.
Interestingly however, it is a fact that those who believe they are
sensitive to the smell of roses will have an asthmatic attack at the
sight of an artificial rose.
Conventional medicine uses drugs and inhalants to prevent and treat
ashama attacks. These treatments are more often than not directed at
the symptoms of the condition rather than the causes.
Hypnotherapy treats the causes of asthma and eliminates it. We have
treated hundreds of patients who have never again had to use an
inhaler or take drugs to combat attacks. Sometimes patients seek
hypnotherapy for this condition as a last resort after orthodox
treatment has failed to give more than temporary relief. But as
education spreads hypnotherapy is slowly becoming the treatment of
first, rather than last, resort for asthma and many other conditions.
In therapy, a patient is taught under light hypnosis how to relax, and
is re-educated as to how to deal with problems without developing
nervous tension. While we do not know the exact causes of asthma we do
know that when we treat the emotional causes that trigger the symptoms
we are successful in curing the condition. The treatment usually takes
about six sessions and has a very high incidence of success providing
a patient accepts that they need to treat the causal emotions and
understands that they are suffering from a nervous condition.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Bed Wetting--Enuresis
Children with emotional behaviour problems display a variety of
symptoms. Among them are anxiety, hysteria, asthma, allergic
disorders, nail biting, delinquency, bed soiling and bed wetting to
name a few. Some of these are outgrown, others can remain into
adulthood. All of these conditions can be treated effectively by
hypnotherapy.
Of all the conditions mentioned, the most common one that confronts
the paediatrician is bed wetting at night (nocturnal enuresis). Ten
percent or more of children fail to have control of their bladder by
the time they reach five years of age. Bed wetting after that age
causes distress and anxiety on the part of both child and parents. The
resulting embarrassment leads to humiliation and loss of self esteem.
Misguided parents who use punishment at this time, when their child
most needs parental understanding, are contributing to the vicious
cycle that establishes an anxiety- tension habit.
When bed wetting is in response to a newly born sister or brother it
is almost always a subconscious, attention-getting mechanism--an
attempt to regain mother or father's lost focus. In fact, most cases
of hostile feelings stem from the subconscious, and that is why
hypnosis can be most helpful in treating night time bed wetting in the
child that is old enough to understand--usually from six years of age
onwards. At the Pecarvé clinic we work very closely with the
paediatrician in these cases and have a very high rate of success.
Bed soiling (nocturnal copresis) has similar causes and
treatment.
Source: Enuresis--Bed Wetting Ch. 17 of The Hypnosis Book
by Rubin Pecarvé
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Bed Soiling (nocturnal copresis) See bed
wetting
Blushing
Blushing occurs when an event, usually embarrassing, triggers the
controlling beta cell which is our controller of emotion. The beta
cell triggers the hypothalamus, which is the main link gland
connecting to the pituitary, the overall controlling gland, which in
turn, activates adrenaline and asks the heart to keep up with its need
for more blood. The heart responds and, trying to keep up, pumps blood
harder and faster. If the resulting surge of blood went directly to
the brain it could cause death by stroke. Instead, the body
miraculously diverts this flow of blood from the usual ceratoid or
jugular vain route to the brain, and "stores" it temporarily in the
facial blood vessels or capillaries. This causes the reddening of the
face we know as blushing.
This process is initiated by the recall of an embarrassing or awkward
event, triggered through the re-meeting of people that were present at
the time the event occurred. For example, if a modest young girl was
unexpectedly surprised, naked in the bath by a visiting family friend
or relative, then each time the child sees that person they will
blush. Sometimes very minor embarrassments or even complimentary
comments by others, particularly a member of the opposite sex, can
trigger a bout of blushing.
We treat many victims of chronic, repeated blushing. Hypnotherapy
helps counteract feelings of guilt associated with blushing by
uncovering the cause of blushing attacks and rationalising it. In most
cases this can be accomplished in two or three clinical sessions.
Note: Interestingly, blushing is the reverse of the
fainting process where the brain is all but drained of blood
because of rapid beating of the heart, requiring lubrication. This can
be caused by fear or extreme emotional disturbance. When, as a defence
mechanism, the subject passes out from lack of oxygenated blood in the
brain, the trauma is no longer affecting the brain function and
consciousness returns. Fainting can be repeated over again unless the
cause is removed or assurances given that the threatening condition
can be coped with. While this is not a condition we treat with
hypnosis--smelling salts is the usual remedy--we are including the
information here because it is another one of the body's clever tricks
to keep us alive.

Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Bulimia, See Anorexia
Cancer
Some time ago when a friend of mine lost his young wife and mother of
his three children to cancer I could not help but ask myself: "Did
this have to be?" I wondered if I could have helped her concentrate
her subconscious mental power to battle the cancer cells that finally
triumphed over her body. As it turned out, working together with
oncologists who shared my belief that our mind could contribute
significantly in the treatment of cancer, I was able to help several
cancer patients not only cope, but actually conquer the disease.
Hypnosis in the treatment of cancer consists of focusing the will of
the patient to fight the intruding cells and thus reinforce and
complement the prescribed treatment such as radiology or chemotherapy.
This powerful combination produces remarkable results, significantly
better than when the medical treatment is carried out without
reinforcement by hypnosis. Self-hypnosis plays an important role in
this treatment. In fact, patients at the Pecarvé Clinic continue to
use self-hypnosis as a sort of preventive medicine even after they
have received a clean bill of health from their oncologist. As in all
such medical cases we work in close cooperation with the patient's
oncologist.
Source: Cancer: Coping and Conquering(Ch. 24) The Hypnosis
Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Childbirth with Complications -
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Hypnotherapy can make the birth process a pleasant and painless one.
My clinic has helped scores of women in this way. Again, we work very
closely with the obstetrician. It is advantageous, but not essential,
to start hypnotherapy in preparation for birth, early in the
pregnancy. The second or third month of gestation is preferred. Then
when the time arrives the mother is totally prepared. Relaxed and
confident. If complications are expected, or difficulties with
previous births were experienced, I usually put the expectant mother
into a deep trance, before contractions become painful. Hypnosis can
diminish or banish any pain if the subject is in a trance before the
onset of real pain.
We also assist with many Caesarean sections which are performed with
no anaesthetic, so any potential harm conventional pain killing drugs
may bring to the newly born is eliminated. Doctors who have performed
complicated deliveries with the aid of hypnosis all confirm that they
would rather have a patient under hypnosis than one who is heavily
drugged. Babies and mothers are the big winners here.
Source: Natural, Painless Childbirth (Ch.16) The Hypnosis
Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Compulsive--Obsessive Behaviour
We all have impulses, some of them are positive and necessary for
survival, some are negative and directed towards others. Some are
irrational. Most of us, through learned social behaviour and self
preservation instinct, are able to sort out the acceptable from the
unacceptable and refrain from acting out impulses that would harm
ourselves or others.
A compulsive condition is said to be present when one is unable to
control those impulses and they become obsessive. In some who have
"compulsive personalities" there is a tendency to do everything to
excess whether it be related to work or play but these people, while
they may not be easy to live with are not usually a danger to others.
Sometimes an obsessive compulsive person will be preoccupied with an
obsessive washing or hands or bathing, tidying up, picking tiny pieces
of lint off their clothing and general picayune behaviour toward their
being and immediate surroundings. This obsessive behaviour is usually
because the person has difficulty in facing the fact that their own
life and innermost feelings are not in order.
Some examples of more destructive compulsive behaviour are habitual
gambling, lying, shoplifting, deviant sexual behaviour, alcohol or
drug abuse. While these forms of obsessive-compulsive behaviour are
usually directed inwardly and no prior desire to hurt or harm others
is present, we are moving into borderline sociopathic behaviour.
In the case of the sociopath, compulsive behaviour towards fellow
humans is often in the form of aggressiveness and intolerance.
Sometimes it is manifested by a chronic inability to live in harmony
with others, It shows up quickly in insitutionalized environments like
the armed services or schools. A marked inability to accept authority
or criticism is particularly prevalent. Sometimes the behaviour takes
the form of "attacks" on individuals or society as a whole. For
example, child and spousal abuse ( see anger and rage
control ) is a common expression of compulsive aggressive
behaviour. This behaviour is an outward expression of the paranoia
that resides in the sub-conscious. This reactive anger can surface at
the most inexplicable times and lead to habitual lawbreaking, violence
and even rape and murder. Thus we find those who's compulsions, when
acted out, do hurt and harm others.
Hypnotherapy can play a healing role in the treatment of all manner of
compulsions. We apply the method of regressing a subject to childhood
to uncover the route causes of the compulsive-obsessive behaviour.
These causes remain present in the subconscious mind, but are not easy
for normal therapy to uncover. In fact, hypnosis can usually help even
those cases that fall into the category of criminal compulsion, and
are the product of the truly psychotic schizophrenic mind.
Source: Compulsions (Ch. 10) The Hypnosis Book by Rubin
Pecarvé
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Concentration, (Lack of ) see also Memory
Problems
Lack of the ability to concentrate can effect our life and livelihood.
Students of any age who are unable to focus are unlikely to do well.
The well paid jobs in the technology sector, all require the ability
to concentrate on, and remember, details. In fact all employers are
reluctant to have people around the workplace who can not concentrate
on the job at hand. In a child, lapses in concentration are a normal
phase of growing, but as the child matures, the power to concentrate
increases. By the time he is in the first or second grade he should be
able to keep his mind on his school work for longer and longer
periods. When he can not, or when concentration ability disappears or
fades in adulthood, then hypnotism can help.
Chronic inability to concentrate is caused by early childhood trauma
that renders the subject unnaturally preoccupied with self. This
preoccupation is omnipresent and does not permit normal concentration
on other people or surrounding events. Sometimes it is necessary to
eliminate these blocking thoughts, when we find out what they are, so
the subject can concentrate on studies, work, friends and family as
well as themselves. Hypnotism will get to the route of the clutter in
the subconscious, clear it, and replace it with positive suggestions
that will facilitate improved concentration. The problems causing poor
memory and procrastination are related and can be addressed at the
same time. The success rate is high. This is an excellent application
for hypnotherapy.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Dentistry
There are two problems that hypnotism can help in this area.
For those who are allergic to drugs used to anaesthetize for major
dental surgery, hypno-anaesthesia can be administered with very good
results.
Secondly, many people also have phobias about going to the dentist. In
some, it is so intense that their dental health suffers. Hypnotism can
find the causes of these fears, and deal with them, so that routine
visits to the dentist are no longer traumatic events.
Source: Beethoven in the Operating Theatre (Ch. 1) of The
Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Depression
Depression is a mental disorder manifested by a lowering of mood and
spirits and a generally gloomy outlook. It is often accompanied with
anxiety, tension and agitation. Clinical depression, when properly
diagnosed, frequently requires medication in addition to
psychotherapy. This is particularly true if suicidal tendencies are
present. Depression is much more common than previously supposed and
interferes with normal enjoyment of life. It strongly effects the
family environment.
This is one of those conditions that hypno-therapy is very successful
in treating but it must always be undertaken in co-operation with
medical professionals, usually psychiatrists. The combination of
professional medical and professional hypno-therapeutic help can work
wonders in a person who might have previously been resolved to a life
in a "black cloud".
One of the Pecarvé Clinic's patient's thank-you letters reflects the
depths into which a depressed person falls and can rise from: She said
"...life for me was like living in a black cloud or swimming in murky
water...I did not want to face another day... now I see clearly all
around...thank you for giving me back my life and my family..."
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Drug Addiction
The growth of narcotic drug addiction in the past half century is such
that it is difficult to overemphasize the importance of seriously
dealing with the problem on a governmental scale. This has not been
done as yet. The jails of Canada and USA are filled with user-addicts.
More than ever it is left to overcrowded and under-funded
rehabilitation centres, dedicated therapists, doctors and
psychologists to try and help the increasing flow of human jetsam
washed up by the tide of drug addiction.
The reader who would like to know more about the causes and treatment
of drug addiction is encouraged to read more about
alcoholism because most drug addicts are
genetic alcoholics and cross-addicted, thus a similar level of
understanding is necessary before we can start to help the suffering
drug addict.
To start with, the terms addiction and habit are not
interchangeable. Generally speaking habit refers to psychological
dependence while addiction is physical.
All narcotic drugs have an effect on the user but when the chronic
disorder of addiction is present they effect a person's ability to
function and may be accompanied by bodily side effects that are life
threatening. Since low morale contributes to all chronically ill
persons, psychotherapeutic techniques are part of most rehabilitation
programs. That is where, in some cases, hypnotherapy can help.
Therapists agree that no drug addict or alcoholic can recover until
they reach a "bottom." Unfortunately for some, this is synonymous with
death from overdose. If the addict escapes this very real possibility
and finds himself in the hands of a good treatment centre or
psychiatrist he may make it back. Sometimes it takes more than one
attempt at recovery. With each failed attempt death comes closer.
Working closely with psychiatrists and psychologists, a good
hypnotherapist can help the addict deal with acceptance of his
condition and the difficult period of withdrawal. Like an alcoholic,
which the drug addict may very well also be, it is necessary to bite
off the recovery a manageable pieces. Initially minute by minute,
then, hour by hour and eventually, day by day. Later, hypnotism can
reinforce the need to join and maintain contact with other recovering
addicts. This is very important in recovery because there is something
about drug addiction that those of us who are not addicts will never
quite understand no matter how sympathetic we may be. On the other
hand, the fellow recovering addict does understand and the peer
fellowship is very important in the recovery process.
One of the major goals of hypnotherapy is to deal with old fears that
reside in the sub-conscious and rebuild self esteem. With the new
sense of worth a sense of confidence and purpose should emerge. Slowly
a sense of responsibility will follow and many a former addict becomes
a useful member of the society that so despised him at the time of his
"bottom".
Source: Ch. 19 and 18, Drug addiction and Alcoholism, The Hypnosis
Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Fear of Flying
There is a phobia that relates directly to flying in an airplane known
as aerophobia, however, many who have a fear of flying suffer from a
variety of phobias such as acrophobia (fear of heights) claustrophobia
(dread of closed spaces), agoraphobia (fear of wide open spaces or
crowded places). Psychotherapy is used extensively in treatment but
hypnotherapy has become an excepted procedure because it has a good
success record - about 80 %.
Contrary to many beliefs, most fearful flyers have never had a really
rough flight, let alone a near-crash. They develop fears of
anticipation usually over several years. They will die a thousand
deaths as the date of flight grows closer. They anticipate the loss of
control, panicking in public or worse--crashing.
The highly successful method we use at the Pecarvé Clinic requires
that the sufferer undertake the following steps:
- A determination to do something about their fear of flying.
- Attend three or four hypnotherapy sessions where confidence in
planes and flying is induced subliminally. This is a painless and
pleasant process.
- Learn some techniques of self-hypnosis to induce numbness in a
little finger at will. This will enable to the subject, when the
numbness is present, to take his or her mind off flying. The
numbness will disappear after the flight is over and the plane is on
the ground. This is not at all difficult and a skill that will serve
the subject well, not only in fear-of-flying situations.
- Practice self-hypnosis at home.
- When fully confident, they either go on a graduate flight
themselves or accompanied by their therapist. The whole process
takes only a few weeks.
This is not a hopeless condition. It can be cured. Take this first
step. Decide you are going to lick the problem and contact a therapist
today.
Source: Fear of Flying (Ch. 21) The Hypnosis Book by
Rubin Pecarvé
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Frigidity and Impotence
In most cases, lack of sexual libido is termed as frigidity in the
female partner and impotence in the male. Good sex therapists are
available and if more couples sought help for their afflictions
instead of burying them in silence, marriages would have much greater
durability. While no two cases are exactly alike, the psychosomatic
nature of the route of most such conditions make them particularly
suitable for treatment by hypnotherapy.
There are, in very rare cases, disease related reasons for impotency.
Some prescription drugs will also effect libido. True frigidity,
however, is less likely to have disease related reasons and more
likely to have psychosomatic origins.
Any kind of worry or stress, business related tension, health or
unrest in the family can exacerbate the problem. For example it is
very common for a man who has lost his job to lose his sexual
appetite. It will return when his financial security is back to
normal.
It is beneficial to understand that once any human being feels
threatened, nature inhibits sexual feelings. If however, none of these
conditions exist and the cause for either frigidity or impotence is
not self evident, then it must be brought to light. This is where
hypnotherapy can frequently help. Age regression is usually employed
followed by the replacement of negative sexual notions in the
sub-conscious, with a positive sexual attitude. Hypnotherapy has a
high success record in permanently correcting these two complaints.
Source: Impotence and Frigidity (Ch. 12) The Hypnosis Book
by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Gambling, Obsessive-compulsive
This is one of the most self-destructive compulsions. Until fairly
recently gambling was in the hands of organised crime or local bookies
and confined to the back alleys and illicit gaming joints. Along with
bootlegging, loan-sharking, prostitution and drug trafficking,
criminal elements have always profited from the vices of the
population. Now, in Canada and the USA, gaming is largely in the hands
of the state, and wears a new cloak of respectability. There are good
and bad consequences. Now the state collects the enormous profits that
formerly went to gangsters. On the other hand millions who would not
have risked the pay check on a role of the dice, have now become
addicted to a range of gambling attractions that include casinos, high
prize lotteries and poker machines in bars and restaurants. Huge
advertising campaigns lure the addicts along with the recreational
gambler. Unlike the recreational gambler, but just like an alcoholic
and drug addict, the compulsive gambler will pursue the
self-destructive behaviour until he has lost everything. He is unable
to quit while he is ahead or has lost a budgeted amount.
The reasons for compulsions reside deep in the subconscious. Through
therapy it is possible, and necessary, for the route causes to be
revealed and dealt with. Hypnosis is the quickest and one of the most
successful ways of accomplishing this. Self-hypnosis plays a role in
this therapy. As with quitting smoking or curbing overeating, this
vice can be eliminated. It is however one of the most insidious
compulsions and it's hold on a victim should not be underestimated. In
the first place it must be understood that complete abstention is
necessary, there are no half measures, it is all or nothing. Like a
recovering alcoholic who can never again pick up a drink, a
compulsive gambler must never again place a bet. Thus, the
first move has to be on the part of the gambler--they have to want to
quit. Good hypnotherapy reinforces a day-at-a-time approach, and
encourages membership in support groups such as Gamblers Anonymous.
Success rate is high with those who are determined to change their
destructive behaviors.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Hypertension (high blood pressure)
Blood pressure is the force used by the heart to keep the blood
circulating adequately throughout the blood vessels of the body. The
condition of High Blood Pressure or Hypertension is believed to be
caused by the narrowing of the smaller arteries throughout the body,
causing the heart to pump harder to get the blood to the extremities.
There is a hereditary tendency toward high blood pressure but it's
presence in a parent does not necessarily mean the children will be
affected. Overweight contributes to high blood pressure, women
tolerate it better than men and black people are more susceptible that
whites.
While high blood pressure is not curable, we are fortunate to have
excellent medication that will treat hypertension and control it so it
does not cause death from heart failure or stroke. Imprudent living
and emotional excesses are definitely aggravating influences on blood
pressure, even in those who do not have a diagnosed condition of
hypertension. In these cases, emotional stress will cause elevated
blood pressure for several hours, days or weeks. When the stress is
eliminated, the blood pressure will return to normal. In a stressful
situation like an argument, the brain sends messages to the central
nervous system to tell the heart to pump blood faster to cope with the
emergency. This can, in extreme cases burst the vessels in the brain
and cause stroke, or in the heart, to cause heart failure.
Hypnotism and self-hypnosis can be employed to effectively control or
avoid stress related hypertension (see also Stress).
Overweight and smoking contribute to the risk that accompanies
hypertension and they can also be treated with hypnotism. (see
Obesity, Smoking.)
Sometimes a fundamental change in lifestyle is called for, or at least
a new way to deal with stressful situations. Hypnosis can play an
important role in affecting these changes that will lead to happier,
healthier living.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Impotence, see Frigidity
Insomnia
Sleep is essential to sustain physical and mental health. Lost sleep
can not be made up and can be a factor in premature ageing.
There are at least two types of sleep that our bodies require. The
first is physical sleep, where the body, it's muscles and it's organs
are rested and returned to full functioning capacity; and r.e.m (rapid
eye movement) sleep where the mind is rested and events of the waking
hours are recycled, "filed in order," and memory replenished. It is a
process that accomplishes for the mind what defragmentation of the
hard disk does for a computer.
Insomnia is present when we have difficulty getting sufficient rest
thus depriving the body of one or both types of sleep. Depravation of
physical sleep will render our body without the strength to function
at full efficency. Depravation of r.e.m. sleep will render our brain
dysfunctional and temporary insanity will follow. In effect, our
computer will crash.
There are many causes of insomnia: anxiety, depression and stress,
lead the list. The unconscious state that occurs when a person passes
out from alcohol or drug abuse will not deliver r.e.m. sleep. The
resulting depression that follows requires a drug or alcohol solution,
and a difficult-to-break cycle is established. This self-depravation
of r.e.m. sleep causes the paranoia and other mental disorders that
accompany the cycle.
Suffice it to say that insomnia, no matter what its cause, can be
harmful to health. The stereotype is the business man who brings the
office worries home and finds it difficult to sleep because he can't
"turn it off." He finds himself tossing and turning in the early hours
of the morning until finally through sheer exhaustion he passes out.
This starts another vicious cycle, because the next night he not only
has the worries of the office on his mind, but also the fact that he
could not get to sleep the previous night, and so it goes on.
Barbiturates that are frequently taken to induce sleep, may relieve
the nervous tension. However, like tranquillizers, they do not get to
the underlying causes, are habit forming, and potentially dangerous.
In hypnotherapy treatment of insomnia, due to the inability to get the
office or other concerns off the mind, we essentially teach
self-hypnosis techniques that the subject can employ at any place and
at any time. During a clinical session we introduce a highly
suggestive scenario or story line which ends in the subject being able
to go to sleep. Being easily recallable, the subject then uses this
scenario whenever he wants to sleep. This is a very effective use of
self-hypnosis. With a little practice my patients get better and
better at this, and the time it takes to fall into a restful sleep is
reduced to minutes. Self-hypnosis is one of life's very useful skills
and once learned, will never be forgotten.
Source: Self-Hypnosis(Ch. 9) The Hypnosis Book by Rubin
Pecarvé.
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Memory Problems, see also
concentration
When we have a lapse or loss of memory it is almost always because we
have not properly "filed" the thought or fact we need to recall. For
example, if we are distracted by personal thoughts or a disturbance in
the class at the time the teacher is extolling knowledge, we are very
unlikely to learn that knowledge. Further, if you throw things into
your memory in a junk room manner, you will not be able to retrieve
them easily. Only the items on the top of the pile are readily
available. Thus, it is important to understand that the primary reason
for a poor memory is that when one is too preoccupied with oneself, to
pay attention to our boss, our spouse or our children, then any
information they impart is not likely to be retained. This can be a
chronic condition that renders a person very difficult to live with
and, possibly threaten their ability to perform a job effectively.
Unnatural preoccupation with self or self-centredness which leads to
the inability to take in, and thus remember facts, is usually caused
by early childhood trauma. It is very unlikely to have anything to do
with current events. It is a general rule that the one we know as
selfish or self-centred is also very likely to have a poor short-term
memory. In practice, the preoccupation with self does not permit the
subject to care about others or what they have to say or do. In fact,
there is no room in the mind for any information that does not
directly benefit themselves. Interestingly enough, these people will
usually have a good memory about themselves, activities they enjoy or
perceive will benefit them. Indeed, when these subjects are approached
, the subject is "all ears" and absorbs the information like a sponge.
In children, the learning possess is effected by these route causes of
poor memory. Contrary to claims of widely publicized products, there
is no quick fix that a memory game can remedy, miraculously turning
children, thus afflicted, into "A" students.
The job of hypnotherapy is to clear the clutter that early life
experiences have installed on the subconscious and allay anxiety that
will not permit the subject to concentrate when facts have to be
stored. We help the subject to focus on the impression of the
information on the mind, the retention of the information in
the brain, and the effective recall of the data when it is
required. A healthy consideration for others helps us to concentrate
on them, and what they wish to tell us, but this can only be developed
when thoughts of self and self preservation take a realistic place in
our persona.
This is a good application for hypnotherapy which succeeds where other
therapies and "miracle" memory cures have failed. Children over six
who have problems with concentration and memorizing school work can
benefit greatly from this application of hypnotherapy and make good
hypnosis subject provided they have healthy imaginations.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Menopause
What a source of fearful apprehension the idea of "the change of life"
has been for women. There has been a marvellous alteration of the
false ideas of decades past, and now most women face menopause with no
fear. This is largely due to improved communication of the facts.
These are that eighty per cent of women pass through menopause without
any ill effects at all. Most of the remaining twenty per cent have
only mild symptoms. Notwithstanding, some women are of a nervous
temperament and the more nervous a woman is, the more apt she is to
have the discomfort she expects.
It is of course true that some important changes take place in the
reproductive organs of the female during this period. The ability to
produce offspring comes to an end. The ovaries cease to produce and
liberate eggs, or ova. The womb abandons its monthly regeneration of a
new lining, and the haemorrhage that precedes the new lining, as the
old lining is shed, ceases. But a women is still very much a women and
now she can enjoy her freedom from the fear of becoming pregnant and
the need to use pads or tampons.
Thus, while "the change" is not the choicest time of life, it is just
another process of aging that begins at birth. It is not a time to be
dreaded and has its compensations. It can be a time of great
fulfilment leading to years of healthy sex life, happiness and
serenity.
Doctors refer several patients to me that fall into the category of
those with a nervous disposition who are having trouble dealing with
the transition. The main role of hypnotherapy in menopause is to
replace misconceptions that reside in the patient's mind, and instil
the rather happy truths about the period in life. We can deal with any
pain or discomfort, real or imagined, and provide positive feelings
towards self and future.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Migraine Headaches
Migraine comes from the Greek words meaning half-head. Ten per cent of
all populations suffer from migraine headaches. Women are about twice
as likely to suffer as men, while children and teenagers are not
immune. The first attack will probably come between the ages of ten
and thirty. Attacks in those over fifty are much less common. The most
common misconception is that migraine is psychosomatic. It is not, it
is a very real physiological condition. When tensions build up to a
certain level, or pressure, or a trigger incident occurs, impulses (or
messages) are sent through the nerves from the subconscious mind to
the blood vessels. This causes over-constriction of these blood
vessel, which in turn, cause a diminished blood supply to a particular
part of the brain. This is known as a spasm of cerebral vessels and
this is what starts the tingling or warning that a migraine is about
to come on. We call this the 'aura.'
Today, we can say with confidence that hypnotherapy is the most
successful treatment of migraine. The combination of hypnosis and
self-hypnosis has brought long term relief to about 80 per cent of my
clinic's migraine patients.
Hypnosis works with your biology and is able to help improve it at the
cellular level. Hypnotic suggestion can actually induce cellular
changes within the body. By making hypnotic suggestions, we drain
blood from the vessels in the head, and return the balance to normal,
thus actually treating the migraine condition not just the symptom of
pain.
Source: Migraine Headaches (Ch. 22) The Hypnosis Book by
Rubin Pecarvé.
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Nail Biting
Just as we can eliminate stuttering and stammering, bed wetting and
smoking, we can, through hypnosis, cure chronic nail biting. Like
thumb sucking, this habit comes from a need for oral pacification and
is very frequently related to early anxiety over adequate food or milk
supply from the mother. It can also be a reaction to the form of
discipline a parent may administer, and how the parent themselves
react to the nail biting or thumb sucking. Like bed-wetting, when the
circle of punishment, reaction and repetition is established, the
habit is likely to persist into adulthood and become a major
embarrassment.
Getting free of this unpleasant habit gives those who accomplish it a
new confidence. If you are bothered by unsightly nails caused by an
inability to keep your fingers out of your mouth, then hypnosis can
help. It usually takes three or more clinical sessions backed up by
self-hypnotic suggestions. Hypnosis has a very good success record in
treating this affliction.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Obesity, Overeating and Weight Control
Of all potentially life threatening medical conditions overweight is
near the top of the list. A direct cause and effect line can be drawn
from obesity to heart diseases. No matter how fat you get, your heart
remains the same size and the more work it has to do. If an obese
person allows this problem to get out of hand, something is going to
give, and it will probably be the heart. Obesity also contributes to
failure of kidneys and the circulatory system. The overworked
digestive system is a risk in over-eaters, and overweight is extremely
dangerous in diabetics, and will have an adverse affect on existing
conditions such as arthritis.
Obesity is said to be present when you are 20% over your ideal body
weight. Thus if your weight chart says you should be 120 lb. and you
weigh in at 145 then you are obese, not just a "little overweight" but
obese. In very rare cases this condition is caused by glandular
dysfunction but in absence of disease causes, the only way you become
obese or overweight has to do with what, and how much, you eat.
While obesity can be treated surgically by removal of part of the
large intestine, the safest method is behaviour modification that
results in a reduction of calorie intake. Diets that favour one of the
food groups over another don't work and can be unsafe.
Hypnotherapy is an excellent therapy for eating disorders. The correct
hypnotheraputic method is to persuade overweight patients to eat less
food from the four recommended food groups. A steady, one or two
pounds a week loss is aimed for, and fasting or skipping meals is
discouraged.
The value of exercise, in conjunction with good eating habits, can not
be over emphasized. Like the maintenance of an internal combustion
engine it is not reasonable to expect the body to perform at efficient
levels when we don't keep it in tune. Thus, the combination of
exercise and sensible food intake is the norm we instil in our
patients.
Self-Hypnosis also plays an important role in recovery, and
suggestions to seek new interests, particularly those that involve
physical activity, help replace the need for excessive food intake.
Here are the six hypnotic suggestions we induce:
- The patient will cut down the intake of food in every possible
way.
- The patient will digest his food much faster, the metabolism
will be speeded up thus preventing fat from accumulating in the
body.
- Fattening foods, such as candies, chocolates, pastries, junk
food, and similar calorie laden food will not be desired.
- The bowels will function frequently, regularly and completely.
- Physical exercise is required by the body to function properly
and a regularly scheduled program of cardiovascular and muscle
toning exercise will become a part of the patients way of living.
- That the subject has it in his power to accomplish these goals
and it will happen.
Don't treat this problem lightly. Along with stopping smoking,
bringing your weight into line is the most beneficial thing you can,
and must do, for yourself. The resultant positive feelings of
accomplishment and return of self esteem, will completely change your
outlook on life. You have but one body. Look after it.
Source: Compulsive Eating--Obesity(Ch. 10) The Hypnosis Book
by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Pain Relief
I have performed anaesthesia by hypnosis for major abdominal surgery
including open heart surgery. We frequently help mothers through the
pain of child birth, even complicated child birth, including caesarean
section. Migraine headaches are commonly dealt with through hypnosis.
Similarly, we can help arthritis and back pain sufferers; although I
must add that sometimes back pain can be effectively treated by
exercise and weight loss. The pain caused by cancer or cancer
treatment can also be controlled without drugs, by hypnosis.
We teach pain control through self-hypnosis and this is a valuable
skill. I can control my own pain completely. For example, I never
require freezing or anaesthetic for dental work. I do not, however,
recommend that the newcomer to hypnosis try this himself. The point is
hypnosis is one of the most effective preventive measures you can
employ to control pain.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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Phobias
Phobias are irrational fears of common objects or life situations.
They prevent the sufferer from leading a normal life. Phobias are many
and have varying degrees of severity. Some who suffer from grave
emotional or mental disorders have phobia's that can not be easily
treated by therapy, and require medication. However, those who have
phobias that prevent them from full enjoyment of life, are encouraged
to see their doctor about the potential of hypnotherapy to cure their
own phobia.
The removal of phobias is frequently undertaken by me when they were
encountered and 'cleaned up' while I was conducting the hypnotherapy
for an entirely unconnected condition. Anytime the subconscious is
probed it is a good idea to clean out irrational fears, even if they
have no apparent connection with the chief reason for which hypnosis
is being conducted.
We do have a very high level of success in curing the patients we
treat (better that 80%). Here are some fairly common phobias: fear of
cats or dogs, fear of dead bodies, fear of water, fear of open spaces,
fear of crowds, dread of closed or confined places, fear of flying,
fear of knives or sharp objects, fear of heart attack, fear of
elevators, fear of travelling in a car, bus, plane, train, or boat.
Sometimes, just getting rid of the symptom manifested by a phobia,
will not help the sufferer for very long. Thus the revelation of the
underlying conflict is necessary. Each case is unique and requires a
unique approach and hypnotherapy can be the wrong approach and long
hours of definitive psychotherapy is required. No one should attempt
hypnotherapy for their phobia unless a clinical psychiatrist or
physician is involved.
Source: Phobias (Ch. 14) The Hypnosis Book by Rubin
Pecarvé.
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Procrastination
Chronic procrastination is a debilitating condition that can prevent
us from reaching our full potential at work or play. It is caused by a
fear of failure, or dread of being judged wrongly when the task is
done. These feelings are known as anticipatory negative reactions and
usually stem from early childhood. They are caused by negative
parenting practices on a continuing basis or by a single traumatic
event in which the child was punished unfairly, or judged wrongly for
something they did or did not do.
The condition can effect children as well as adults. It is manifested
by a powerful reluctance to tackle any task that is more than routine,
because of the fear of failure and its consequences. Competitive
situations, in particular, are recoiled from and avoided. Since life
tends to be a competitive process, this inhibits the procrastinator's
normal achievement and the rewards it brings. In the work place, the
easy task is always chosen over the more challenging. Why? Simply
because we have sub-conscious knowledge that time will run out and the
difficult task will have to wait for another day.
In hypnotherapy we are able to replace these anticipatory negative
feelings with competing alternate positive imagery. After two or three
sessions, subjects find themselves able to tackle more and more
difficult tasks and are less likely to put them off. The self hypnosis
we teach enables immediate positive action in work situations. I have
seen former chronic procrastinators be promoted to managerial
positions because of their willingness to take on new challenges.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Self Confidence (see Stage fright)
Stage Fright, developing self confidence
It is not always true that a traumatic experience has to live solely
in the subconscious to have a dramatic impact on our lives. Some are
well aware of the experience, isolated or repeated, that made it
difficult to assert themselves or speak confidently to groups.
Hypnosis can not only deal with stage fright, but it can restore or
install self-confidence. The therapeutic method I have used with
almost 100 per cent success is a modified version of hypnotic
suggestion. It works extremely well with those who have a clear
understanding of why, when confronted by audiences, they have a strong
desire to run away and hide. Others, are not clear why they lack self
confidence.
To determine the suitability of the correct approach, I regress my
patients to early childhood to make sure there are no other
deep-seated traumas in early life that have to be dealt with.
In treating stage fright, for example, we can install powerful
suggestions and real information such as a true story of Winston
Churchill: Churchill, perhaps the greatest orator of the twentieth
century, had stage fright because of the disapproving presence of his
alcoholic father in an audience, during his early school years. This
works well with admirers of Churchill. To deal with his fear of the
audience, Churchill imagined that the assembled throng were in their
underwear. This put him on a better than equal status with his
listeners and he no longer feared their ridicule as he had his
father's.
Many of those who recover from stage fright come to enjoy public
speaking. While like all of us, they have apprehension before a
speech, once they get to the podium all fear leaves, and they are
comfortably at home with their audience.
Source: Stage Fright--Developing Self-confidence (Ch. 23)
The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Smoking--Nicotine Addiction
Only the disease of alcoholism takes a greater toll on human life and
financial liability to our society, than the smoking habit. Not a
disease in itself, sometimes nicotine addiction combines with the
disease of alcoholism to hasten death. More frequently, the dangerous
drug's effect on the body's organs manages the job without the help of
alcohol.
Lung, stomach and throat cancers are not the only diseases nicotine
delivers to its users. Hardening of the arteries, emphysema and
hypertension, all leading to cardiac failure or stroke are contributed
to by smoking. In fact, the chances of dying before your full life
span is virtually assured if you smoke. On the other hand it is never
too late to quit smoking. The body has remarkable recuperative powers.
One who quits this deadly habit can return his or her life expectancy
to normal after a few years of smoke free living.
The start of the smoking habit can be traced to a multitude of causes,
among them, peer pressure, the desire to emulate the father or mother,
or a simple ego-boost to reflect a stereotyped tough guy or
sophisticated women image. Inhaling is learned and with it a true
chemical need builds up as the body requires its regular nicotine fix.
Fortunately, hypnosis can help many who want to, quit. But watch for
poor techniques. If a hypnotist tells you he can make you quit by
suggesting you will find the taste of tobacco objectionable, walk the
other way. The method will almost certainly fail. Certainly,
instilling a taste aversion to tobacco can often cause the subject to
quit smoking for a short period, but unless the true cause of the
patients need to smoke is uncovered it is likely that another habit,
equally self destructive, will replace it.
Stopping smoking is helped greatly by self-hypnosis and a good
therapist will implant suggestions during the office visits that can
be reinforced by self-hypnosis at home. The combination of three or
four clinic visits, reinforced by daily self-hypnosis, sometimes
supplemented by audio tapes, and return visits to reinforce the
suggestions, works well. Appetite control suggestions should also be
introduced and will guard against substitution of one life threatening
habit for another.
Source: Nicotine Addiction--Stopping Smoking (Ch. 20) The
Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Sociopathic (anti-social) behaviour, see
Compulsions and Anger and Rage control
Stammering and Stuttering
Stuttering and stammering can be seen to be more of an embarrassment
than an actual affliction by all but the sufferer. Nonetheless such
problems can be controlled or removed completely by hypnosis, even
when conventional speech therapy has been ineffective.
The difference between stuttering and stammering is that the
conditions are identified differently, although the communication
block remains the same. Stuttering impedes the clarity of speech
because of an inability to pronounce syllables with repeated efforts.
A stutterer is unable to select the sixty sounds that make up the
human language from the six hundred or so labial sounds that include,
retching, sucking, and other primal noises which have little
connection with lingual clarity.
The stammer differs from the stutter in that the stammer involuntarily
repeats a consonant, syllable or word and may transpose or
mispronounce such consonants. The diction may be clear enough but the
hang up of repetition obstructs effective communication.
Medical opinion sees the condition as a personality problem. In almost
all cases the sufferer has no problem talking when they are alone.
They can also talk to animals. Few cases have been found which are
directly due to neurological causes or anatomic deformity. The cause
would rarely be related to a malfunction of the palatal or lingual
muscles related to speech. In the vast majority of occurrences, a
tense and stressful environment in childhood is what brings on the
attack of stuttering on stammering condition.
Dr. Smiley Blanton in the Journal of the American Medical Association
writes: "...When stuttering persists into adolescence and adulthood,
the person's whole personality is involved, and not just the speech
organs. The subject must be trained to understand themself and to
learn to adjust to other people without fear and tension...".
Hypnotherapy is an ideal tool for such adjustment. In most cases it is
necessary to regress these patients in age to reveal the route of the
problem. Being able to get to the root or the problem makes it
possible for the therapist to successfully cure cases of stuttering
which have stubbornly resisted all other orthodox treatments. Once the
route cause is uncovered, then progress is usually rapid. Indeed, to
the point where a former stutterer can recite tongue twisters that
would stump most of us who have normal speech.
Source: Stuttering and Stammering (Ch. 13) The Hypnosis Book
by Rubin Pecarvé.
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Stress
Stress control is the objective of most hobbies and pastimes. Working
out, swimming, running, fishing, even stamp collecting can help us
relax and alleviate the symptoms of stress. In my treatment of cancer
I emphasize the power of relaxation to heal. Stress that is not dealt
with, will give cancer or another diseases a place to start. The
medical profession believes that one of the major causes of cancer is
a person's inability to dissipate the stresses of everyday life. The
stresses that so accumulate are thought to take their toll by
inhibiting the body's natural immune system.
Cancer or heart disease is often an indication of problems elsewhere
in a subject's life. Objective research has shown that many who
contract cancer or heat failure very frequently have suffered severe
stress involving loss of a relationship, job, or death of a spouse or
child, some twelve to eighteen months prior to onset of the disease.
Spousal relationships that are bitter, abrasive or abusive are a major
cause of negative stress and must be changed. In fact, unless the
subject changes recognizable causes of stress such as this, he or she
will undoubtedly bear the consequences in health breakdown sooner or
later. This is particularly true if you already have hypertension.
Stress is an enemy waiting in the wings. Don't give it a chance to
kill you.
We use several hypnotic techniques for dealing with stress, and they
vary with the type of stress and the individual. Stress control should
be ongoing. That is where learned self-hypnosis is so valuable. My
therapy encourages pleasant hobbies and physical activity to combat
stress, but when a stressful situation strikes in the middle of the
work day it is invaluable to have the ability to self-hypnotize
oneself through the crisis.
If you are concerned about stress in your life, see your doctor about
using the considerable power of hypnosis to combat this silent killer.
Source: The Hypnosis Book by Rubin Pecarvé
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